Becoming the Woman God Called You to Be

Dr. Doris Jones
6 days ago
3 min read

Hello Queen,

Can you believe we are over halfway through the year? Before you know it, it will be the holiday season of Thanksgiving and Christmas. Before we get there, I want to celebrate you as a daughter of the King (meaning Jesus) and encourage you to continue moving forward into the woman God has called you to be. You see, every woman has a divine calling, a purpose rooted not in the opinions of others, but in the heart of God. Becoming the woman God called you to be means shedding layers of fear, shame, insecurity, and comparison, and embracing your identity as His beloved daughter. It’s a journey of faith, healing, courage, and obedience for all of us, and it is a road we will travel until the end of our days. My beautiful sister, no matter where life takes you or what your current circumstances are, always remember you can find peace, comfort, and confirmation in the word of God, despite how loud the world is talking around you.

Scripture Reflections

"Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, before you were born, I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations." (Jeremiah 1:5) (NIV)

Sis, you are not a mistake. Your life was purposefully created, and God has already marked you for something sacred. Becoming who He called you to be starts with believing you were made on purpose, for a purpose.

"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come." (Proverbs 31:25) (NIV)

The woman God has called you to be is not timid or overwhelmed by the future. She stands in strength and confidence because she knows who holds her future.

"For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." (Ephesians 2:10) (NIV)

Your identity is rooted in Christ. You were created to do good works that have already been set in motion. Your job is to walk in them, trusting that every step of obedience leads to transformation.

Reflection Questions

What beliefs have held you back from fully becoming the woman God called you to be?
When do you feel most aligned with your God-given purpose?
What spiritual gifts or passions has God placed within you that you’ve ignored or minimized?
Are there relationships, habits, or environments that need to shift so you can grow into your calling?

Journal Prompts

Write a letter to your future self from the woman you know God is calling you to be. Describe her faith, her confidence, her joy, and her impact.
List the fears you need to surrender to God, in order to walk boldly in your calling.
Reflect on one moment in your life when you felt empowered by God. What did that feel like? What can you learn from it today?

Empowerment Declaration

Queen, here is a declaration you can write or type out and put it somewhere you can see it daily. Speak it out loud in your home and set the atmosphere wherever you go. Say it with confidence, being strong and courageous.

“I am a woman chosen, equipped, and anointed by God. I will no longer shrink back in fear or doubt. I walk in strength, wisdom, and purpose. I trust God’s timing, His voice, and His plan for my life. I am becoming the woman He has called me to be, strong, courageous, and full of faith.”

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for creating my beautiful sister with intentionality and purpose. Help her to surrender every fear, insecurity, and doubt that tries to keep her from becoming who You’ve called her to be. Open her heart to hear Your voice and give her the strength to follow it. Surround her with people who will uplift and encourage her in her journey. Teach her to trust You in every season and to walk boldly in the identity You’ve given her. Help her to choose today to grow, to rise, and to become the woman You envisioned before she was even born. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Love and Blessings,

Dr. Doris