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Reclaiming Your Throne “A Guide to Embracing Your Inner Queen”

Hello Queen! I pray that you have enjoyed your weekend and are having an amazing week full of mind-blowing blessings and miracles. Today I encourage you to embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. In a world that often tries to diminish your worth, it's essential to reclaim your throne and embrace the majestic essence within you. Understand that you possess the power to reign supreme in your life and prayerfully this guide will serve as your compass on this regal quest. Here are six steps to help you reclaim your throne and embrace your inner Queen.

Step 1: Know Thyself: Every Queen must first know herself intimately. Take the time to explore your passions, strengths, and values. What makes you unique? What ignites your spirit? Embrace your flaws and imperfections, for they are the jewels that adorn your crown. Self-awareness is the cornerstone of true empowerment.

Step 2: Cultivate Confidence: Confidence is the scepter of a Queen. Stand tall, speak with authority, and command the respect you deserve. Practice self-affirmations, surround yourself with positive influences, and challenge self-doubt at every turn. Remember, you are worthy of all the greatness the world has to offer. Queen, I would often say to my children when I was raising them.  If you make a mistake or don’t know the answer to a question you have been asked, do it with confidence. For example, you can say, “No, I don’t know the answer to that question but once you tell me I will never forget it.”

Step 3: Embrace Your Authenticity: Queens do not conform; they shine in their authenticity. Embrace your quirks, passions, and the essence of who you are without apology. God created who he wanted you to be. Your uniqueness is your strength, so let it radiate like the brightest gem in your crown. Celebrate your individuality and inspire others to do the same. Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Queen, I must admit, I made that mistake myself by giving my power away. I let the words and how others treated me made me feel less than who God created me to be. But no more!

Step 4: Develop Grace and Compassion: True Queens lead with grace and compassion. Cultivate kindness in your heart, not only towards others but also towards yourself. Forgive past mistakes, learn from them, and let go of anything that no longer serves your highest good. Remember, empathy is a crown jewel that shines brightest in times of darkness. Don’t allow anyone to keep you stuck in your past mistakes by constantly reminding you of what you’ve done. People like that suck the love, joy, and peace right out of your life. So don’t feel guilty if you have to distance yourself from them to enjoy the one life God has given you.

Step 5: Build Your Court: No Queen reigns alone. Surround yourself with a loyal court of supporters, mentors, and allies who uplift and empower you. Forge meaningful connections with other Queens, sharing wisdom, encouragement, and laughter along the way. Together, we rise higher than we ever could alone. “When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.” Maya Angelou. It is not your job to change anyone, because you can’t. Only God can change the heart and mind of man. Don’t listen to people who try to make you responsible for their happiness, or to bring meaning to their life. That’s not your job and you were not created for that. If a person wants to better their life, they have to be the one to make it happen. First, take care of yourself.

Step 6: Rule with Purpose: Every action you take should align with your purpose as a Queen. Set ambitious goals, pursue your dreams relentlessly, and never settle for anything less than you deserve. Your throne awaits, but it's up to you to claim it with unwavering determination and resolve. As you embark on your journey, remember that being a Queen is not just a title; it's a way of life. Embrace the power, grace, and majesty within you, and let it illuminate the world around you. You are destined for greatness, Queen, go forth and reign supreme!


Many Blessings,

Dr. Doris


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I am Dr. Doris, a Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor, Ordained Minister, and Women's Emotional Intelligence Master Life Coach. I want to personally welcome you to take a peak inside my world of encouragement and positive engagement.  In this space I empower

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